Are you a human bean? If your answer is yes, then you probably must have had a fight with some other human bean at least once in your life, right? After the fight did you ever think of forgiving that person? Almost 99.9% of the people would definitely say no.
I myself would learn karate, get a black belt and kick that person’s bum instead of forgiving them. As for “FORGET” excuse me what does that word even mean?
But not forgiving and forgetting has its consequences, for starters:
1- You’ll become old before your grandparents do. And when your grandchildren ask you, “Why is your hair white granny, is it because of wisdom?” You’ll have no choice but to tell them,
“ NO, I never forgave and therefore I also never forgot”
2- Instead of going to sleep at night like other people, you’ll lay awake in bed thinking of ways to take revenge, which could eventually lead to insomnia turning you into a zombie overnight.
3- You’ll miss treats. For example: If I have a fight with my sister and she has a box full of yummy delicious chocolates …………………. You know what I mean. But if I forgive :
4- People will follow you around like Paparazzi and if you do something wrong they also won’t forgive you and will definitely not forget.
5- The number of your enemies will increase which naturally results in a decrease in friends.
Therefore, the important question here arises, Do you see any benefits in not forgiving and forgetting? I DON’T.
It is therefore rightly said that “EVERY PROBLEM HAS A SOLUTION”.
What To Do Then: FORGIVE AND FORGET OBVIOUSLY : D
But if doing so is still difficult: Just do one thing, Remember that person’s good points and the good they did for you.
Reasons why you and I should “Forgive and Forget” :
1- GOD loves those who forgive others. So the quicker you forgive others the quicker GOD will forgive you as well.
2- You’ll have peace of mind. And that is much better than wasting money on sleeping pills.
3- You’ll be a granny with healthy black hair.
4- Backbiting will decrease, which will make this world a happier place to live in.
5- You’ll have more friends in real life than you have on Facebook.
6- Paparazzi’s will go out of job…hehe.
Remember the best way to act on something good is to tell others about it, so that even if you forget they’ll remind you. So spread the word and be blessed 🙂
ME AFTER WRITING THIS :